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Why We Are No Longer Friends on Facebook



Dear Ex-FB friend,

Since you asked, I will tell you why we are no longer friends on facebook.

First of all, we were never friends in real life. You seemed like a nice person and you probably thought the same about me so we became friends online through our blogs and through facebook. Not having met each other for real is not the issue though. I have many friends that I only know online and consider those friendships quite real.

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Too Much Time on Facebook – How Do You Manage?

You know I am spending too much time on facebook when I let things that I read there upset me or get to me. You know I’m spending too much time on facebook when I’ve blogged about it for two or three times now.

I don’t mind the times when a thread gets so funny and interesting that it gets multiple comments from everyone and it becomes chat like. I end up thinking about those conversations hours later and still get a giggle. Those are good.

The bad is that one status that irked you so much that you didn’t even bother to comment, but you’re still thinking about it hours later anyway. That’s annoying.

That’s also disturbing when you think about the fact that you are thinking about facebook or twitter or pinterest long after you get offline and even find yourself expending emotion over stuff you run into. It’s a bit scary and sad at the same time, don’t you think?

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Cleaning House… Again

So I just did another round of house cleaning. No, not my real house. Are you kidding me?

I cleaned my social media house is what I meant. I have dabbled with many social media accounts over the years but the two that I use the most is Facebook and Twitter. I not only use them for blogging purposes, I also use them for personal and work stuff.

I realized some things with these two accounts that prompted me to do a bit of house cleaning.

With Facebook, I use my personal account also for blogging purposes which totally confuses my non-blogging friends and family. Luckily, facebook has adopted one Google + feature, and that is being able to classify your friends lists into ‘circles’ (Google+) or as Facebook calls it, ‘lists’. So now when I have an update that only pertains to my friends who blog, I make that status update only visible to them and when I have status updates about ‘Aunt Mary’ being sick or something, I can make that visible only to my relatives, and so on..

But before that can happen, I had to first classify my facebook friends into groups or lists. It took quite some time as I had lumped together in one huge Friends List all my family, friends and blog contacts. It was a huge task to go through almost a thousand names and classify them.

And in the process, something dawned on me…

I don’t know half the people on my Friends list and barely have interacted with them in the years that I have been on facebook!

So I decided then to do some house cleaning. A drastic one.

I went through all my friends on Facebook and if they hadn’t interacted with me in anyway, I deleted them from my friends list. Why? Won’t it hurt my blogging network?

Not really, because your old friends that you UN-FRIEND will still be subscribed to you (another useful feature in facebook). My facebook wall is almost all public, so they will still see my public updates. What they won’t see are the updates from my friends and those that I mark either ‘Friends Only’ or those that I mark specifically for my targeted groups. Pretty cool, right?

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Who Says You Don’t Meet Real People Online?

Who says you don’t meet real people online? Today, my heart is heavy because one of my blogging friends passed away. She hasn’t blogged for a while, but we managed to stay connected on facebook. It was actually nicer because I heard about what she’s doing everyday through my facebook feed.

So it was sad when I logged on this morning and learned that she had passed away. The pain and grief is real and so was the pleasure of knowing someone you’ve never met in person. So yes, you do meet REAL people online and Skeeter was one of the most real person you could have known.

To her family and friends and family, online and offline, my deepest condolences. She will be missed.

FREE Facebook Cards

I just happen to run across my Facebook Cards today while looking for my work business cards. I was feeling around the chasm that is my purse looking for my business cards and these cards were the first that my fingers latched on to. You know why?

Because they are so thick and sturdy that they just about overshadowed the other cards in my purse!

I seriously love the heft in these cards and the brilliant colors of the print are not too shabby either. I will definitely be ordering more of these!

You need to check them out! They are also still available for FREE for a limited time, so order yours now. Click on the photo above to find out how to get them.